Fear can be about losing parents, losing brother or sister, losing someone you love very dearly. The fear remains contantly in your mind. The chord may strike anytime, not just during a phase of sleep when one dreams. Questions arise such as what it will without the ones you need, what is needed to save the lose etc. Sometimes people go in a phase where they don't want to talk to others about what is going on in their mind. They are in a mood where they just want to take time out of their lives and want to think.
As one matures, priorities of people change and people are able to overcome and finally forget fears. Some fears become so engraved in the part of the brain that it remains all the time with one.
I believe that fears are for both good and bad and some have to be sought out through mind and when some are beyond the working of mind, then the mighty heart comes into play!.
Insecurities are there in everyone's mind and the sooner one accepts them as a part of life, the better. The best way out is to live the present to the fullest, to ensure that you do not miss the precious moments with the one you love, in the fear that you might lose him/her some day. In most cases, that's beyond you and that is what we call destiny. :)
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